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Domestic
Violence
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Are you with an abusive person?
Traits to look for in an abuser:
- Verbal Abuse: The
abuser often degrades, curses, puts down the abused accomplishments.
He / She may tell them they are stupid and cannot survive without
them. He /She may wake them in the middle of the night to verbal abuse
or "accuse" them.
- Abuse of children or animals:
An abuser may expect children to be able to do much more
than they are capable of for their age such as whipping a toddler
for wetting their pants. Approximately 60% of abusers also abuse their
children.
- Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
Personality: The abuser may have sudden changes in mood which
can be very confusing. One minute he's happy, the next sad, the next
angry.
- Threatening Violence: Abusers
may threaten physical force in order to intimidate their spouse. They
may make excuses for their behavior by telling the abused "Everybody
talks like that".
- Force during an argument:
Holding the abused down, restraining them, shoving or punishing
them. The abuser may push them down or against a wall and say, "You
are going to listen to me".
- Breaking or Hitting Things:
Often an abuser punishes their spouse by breaking their possessions,
throwing objects at or near them, beating walls, tables, etc., in
order to intimidate and threaten them.
If you are being abused, call your local domestic
violence shelter or Police / Sheriff's Department.
Please contact us for more information or for an appointment by calling
us at 281-357-4111 or e-mailing us at info@cccctomball.com.
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